Just to remind you, when I send a note to the list there is no intention of pointing out individuals. I tend to take a much "longer" view of things and these reminders are meant for all of us. Think of them as an occasional sermon from the pulpit. It isn't easy to live up to high standards ;-). So, don't feel personally or individually embarrassed or upset at what I have to say!
Normally, the list is pervaded by a sense of cooperation, understanding and love. The past couple of days have been a great example of the "good things". However, I will be the first to admit that the previous few months, if not longer, have not been our finest hours. The fault is definitely mine, as I have not been as quick as I should to remind people of their responsibilities to the list as I should have. I would really like to restore some of the quality to the list that has made it so much fun in the past. I DEFINITELY need everyone's cooperation for this.
As I see it, the problems we are facing have been brewing for a rather long time. Gradually, we have all become a little more careless about almost every area of when, what, and whether we should post something to the list. In the last year or so MANY of us have gotten up on the wrong side of the bed and posted or replied to a post in a way that demonstrated it. We have been doing a lot of "nit-picking", showing our irritation and resorting to confrontation to sooth our frustration (I stole that from Jesse Jackson). So, what we need to do is all take a step back, breath deep and relax.
I am going to make a couple of announcements with some more specific guidelines in the very near future on a couple of areas. While these guidelines will be to help avoid some of the arguments as of late, they may directly affect you in any event. I am going to try to streamline a few areas to help avoid errors of perception, which often lead to little spats as well as other things I would like to discuss. Please read each of these through quickly so you have an idea of what is going on. If you have questions you can always contact me directly at:
NewCal~acbell.net OR m.Poles~erizon.net OR owner-harp~arply.com (owner mail is up and running!)