Just a reminder that you are never supposed to post anything on list that was sent in a private communication. Usually this is an honest mistake and causes no harm. I do try to show tolerance when that is the case, but there are times when it can be very hurtful. This is why we need to keep a zero-tolerance level in general for this type of behavior. I won't tolerate it at all when the intention is to try to hurt or embarrass someone. PLEASE be very careful not to post private stuff on list by mistake and be aware that it may result in your immediate removal. Thanks,